traumatizedofficial:

lesbianstarbutterfly:

lesbianstarbutterfly:

90% of this site doesn’t understand the difference between an excuse and an explanation

in an apology, regardless of your mental health, using your mental illness as an excuse to try and get off scot-free is so fucking shitty. if you manipulate and abuse someone, your immediate response SHOULDN’T BE “i’m sorry BUT I HAVE _______ so stop being ableist :/“ 

your response SHOULD be “i’m sorry, here’s an explanation for why i did that. my intent/reasoning doesn’t change what i did, nor make it okay. i understand if you can’t accept my apology.” can’t believe someone has to teach you guys how to apologize like this is kindergarten but here we are.

also, joking about everyone’s anger 2 seconds later only proves that you have not learned your lesson at all and are just trying to weasel your way out of drama. 

surprisingly, a lot of y’all fucking do that and need to stop that lmao