DO YOU LIVE IN NEW JERSEY OR NEW YORK? HAVE YOU SEEN THIS GECKO?? Rhac House owner Paul Morlock had his display gecko taken at the Long Island Reptile Expo! Please keep your eyes peeled in case you see someone trying to sell her!! Contact Paul if you have seen her, please!!
He’s even offering a reward for her! Please keep sharing.
this was posted on 10/23/17.
as of 10/27/17 she still hasn’t been located.
the owner of this gecko also noted that she (C. Monkey) is in fact sterile, and cannot be used for breeding.
As of 11/06/17, C. Monkey has still not been located.
An update was posted on 11/01/17 stating he has not received any solid leads on her whereabouts.
Try to remember that your partner might need more explanation for your thought process than you think is necessary, especially if it’s a “negative” thought.
“I disagree with you” –> “I disagree with you, but I’m not angry at you, and I’m not going to yell at you for not agreeing with me.”
“I’m hurt by what you did” –> “I’m hurt by what you did, but I don’t hate you, and I don’t think you’re a bad person. I just want to discuss it.”
“I’m frustrated” –> “I’m frustrated, but it doesn’t mean I don’t care about you.”
What feels obvious to you–the underlying asumption that of course you still love this person, of course this is just a single feeling–is not obvious to someone who has been trained to flinch at every criticism. Take the time to explain your feelings and their meanings to ease both your fears.
If an autistic person tells you they’re autistic, don’t tell them things like “don’t let autism define you”, or “there’s other things about you besides autism” etc
Your intentions may be good. In your eyes, you see autism as a negative thing and that there’s other good things about us
But here’s the thing, a lot of autistic people don’t see autism as negative. By saying that kind of stuff, you’re instead pushing the idea to us that autism shouldn’t be looked at positively
Hey, anyone else do a sort lf thing where they infodump…to themselves? Like, u want to infodump to someone. But there’s no around/the people around will ignore or get mad at you so you just go over a the knowledge about whatever it is in your head? Or out loud? Like for example, I’d like to infodump about Earthbound. My friend is at work, my family will get mad/ignore me. So i am just going over all the things i know about the game but in my head. Anyone else do this? I do it ALOT.
As a child I felt much older than my years because I had to deal with things no child should ever have to. As an adult I feel much younger than my years because of all the ways my childhood trauma has held me back.
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